Monday, October 27, 2008

The Fast And Easy Way To Find Out If Your Spouse Is Cheating

By Doug Timlin

If you are married or in a relationship, you may have had your suspicions at some point that your spouse was cheating on you. These suspicions can be an awful feeling and they have the ability to make your life a lot more stressful than necessary. There's an easy way to find out if your spouse is cheating on you that we wanted to show you in this quick article.

The nice thing about this method is that you can do it all from your own home without anyone knowing what you are doing. I get emails from people asking about hiring a private investigator to look into whether their spouse is cheating, however that is such a drastic step that isn't necessary. This quick and easy "detective's trick" is the first thing you should do if you have some thoughts that your partner might be acting unfaithfully.

Ok - let's get to it.

Step #1 - Is Your Spouse Cheating?

First things first, grab a hold of your spouse's cell phone for 15-20 minutes when they are not around to catch you snooping through it. Just a few minutes is all it takes to get the information that you will need. Be sure to be careful here.

Check out their recent call history which is stored on their phone. Look at the incoming and outgoing calls and write down the phone numbers on paper.

You will probably find some numbers that you recognize. There is no need to write these down, just get the ones that don't seem familiar.

Once that's done, put the phone back and move to step 2.

Step #2 - Think Your Spouse Is Cheating?

With your handy dandy list of phone numbers you are now ready to find out who these strange numbers belong to.

A lot of information can be found about a person just by knowing their phone number. You can find out a person's name, address and background information using their number only.

Many companies exist today that contain huge databases of phone numbers (this includes unlisted and cell phone numbers). You can use these companies to your advantage by investigating any numbers that show up in their database.

You may want to have a look at the sample search at the bottom of this article for more about how the searches work.

Of course, there are fees involved with these searches. Before you get discouraged there is some good news - most sites do not charge much at all. Many even offer a flat one-time fee rate for unlimited access to their database. This is a great option if you have many searches to conduct.

These searches are called "reverse phone lookups."

Run a search for each and every number on your list. Then write down all the information that you can possibly gather.

Step #3 - Could Your Spouse Be Cheating?

You now have a whole list of numbers and details pertaining to everyone your spouse has been calling recently.

This information can not only help you figure out if your spouse is cheating but it can also tell you who they have been messing around with! Take a good long look at the list and judge whether or not they have been "up to no good."

Pay careful attention to names or numbers that show up frequently and make note of any calling patterns that you find. If your spouse has been cheating it should be pretty clear to see with just this information alone.

What do I love about this technique so much? Not only is it very quick and easy, but you can do it privately so that nobody knows what you are up to. If you think your spouse is cheating on you then you need to do yourself a huge favor and try this technique to find out for certain.

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