The best reason to read female body language is to: avoid rejection. Men often complain of getting blown off and often blame themselves for not approaching a woman the right way or for acting too forward or for not being attractive enough. Some of these things may be true but remember that approaching a lady at a gathering or party is only half the battle. You have to know from the start whether you will get rejected or not. Spare yourself the agony of guesswork and analyze her actions before even approaching her. Is she even ready to meet people or is she waiting for a boyfriend to arrive? Did she come alone to the party or is she scanning the crowd for a guy to go home with?
1. Search the crowd for women who are preening - A woman who is looking to be approached will stand more erect. Her facial muscles will be relaxed and she will be sporting a half smile. She is probably trying to act nonchalant and idly scanning the crowd while holding a drink in one hand.
2. Is she smoothing her hair? - Part of the preening process is making sure that she looks her best during a meeting. If it's not her hair, it's her dress. She will also turn around every so often to glace at a mirror. A guy can practice reading female body language a few minutes before he approaches, just to familiarize himself with the signs that a woman sends out to indicate that she is really available.
3. Watch her while she talks with other people - Notice slow crossing and uncrossing of the legs. If she delicately balances her shoe on the toe of one foot it may mean she's totally comfortable talking to this guy. Some female body language signs that convey comfort include tucking of the feet under the chair while caressing or fiddling with a part of her face or clothing.
4. Direct eye contact - Watch for a woman looking at you directly. Notice as she looks away embarrassed as soon as you catch her. A direct gaze is a sign that she wants attention to herself. However, don't approach just yet. Send your own signals to her and let her continue showing you female body language signs that makes her eager to talk to you.
5. Look for shoulders and torsos that are pointing towards you. - You can test this female body language inside a grocery store. If you pass by aisle and a woman is right there reading some ingredients on a product, her body will follow you even when her eyes are looking down. This is one sign that a woman is noticing you without looking directly at you, and this could be used as a cue to identify those at a party who are already aware of your presence.
6. Demure gestures - Every woman can act demure when in the presence of a good looking guy. It doesn't matter how empowered a woman is, when she's in front of a guy she likes, she will most likely act coy and somewhat shy. Subtle tilting of her head and laughing flirtatiously are some of the gestures to look for.
1. Search the crowd for women who are preening - A woman who is looking to be approached will stand more erect. Her facial muscles will be relaxed and she will be sporting a half smile. She is probably trying to act nonchalant and idly scanning the crowd while holding a drink in one hand.
2. Is she smoothing her hair? - Part of the preening process is making sure that she looks her best during a meeting. If it's not her hair, it's her dress. She will also turn around every so often to glace at a mirror. A guy can practice reading female body language a few minutes before he approaches, just to familiarize himself with the signs that a woman sends out to indicate that she is really available.
3. Watch her while she talks with other people - Notice slow crossing and uncrossing of the legs. If she delicately balances her shoe on the toe of one foot it may mean she's totally comfortable talking to this guy. Some female body language signs that convey comfort include tucking of the feet under the chair while caressing or fiddling with a part of her face or clothing.
4. Direct eye contact - Watch for a woman looking at you directly. Notice as she looks away embarrassed as soon as you catch her. A direct gaze is a sign that she wants attention to herself. However, don't approach just yet. Send your own signals to her and let her continue showing you female body language signs that makes her eager to talk to you.
5. Look for shoulders and torsos that are pointing towards you. - You can test this female body language inside a grocery store. If you pass by aisle and a woman is right there reading some ingredients on a product, her body will follow you even when her eyes are looking down. This is one sign that a woman is noticing you without looking directly at you, and this could be used as a cue to identify those at a party who are already aware of your presence.
6. Demure gestures - Every woman can act demure when in the presence of a good looking guy. It doesn't matter how empowered a woman is, when she's in front of a guy she likes, she will most likely act coy and somewhat shy. Subtle tilting of her head and laughing flirtatiously are some of the gestures to look for.
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