There are a couple of ways of learning how to be a player: 1. get pre-selected and 2. prevent her from looking at you as "just a friend". There is a huge difference between being "just a friend" and being her boyfriend, let's delineate that right now. Getting pre-selected is easier to do than preventing her from seeing you as just a friend, let's look at the more difficult method first.
How to be a player by being her boyfriend, and not just her friend?
Sure, a lot of sources will tell you that knowing how to be a player means flirting with anyone and sleeping with anyone, even your female pals. However, sleeping with a friend is like scratching an itch, while sleeping with a boyfriend means falling deeply in love with him through sex.
If you don't care about what women think, and feel relieved that having girl pals to sleep with when you yourself feel antsy is well and good, but what if your girl pal suddenly becomes involved with another guy? Where will you be then?
Can you see the problem there?
You can never have full certainty that your female friend will want you for a serious boyfriend, and the worst part is that if you're really close to her, she will see through you immediately and know that you are learning how to be a player and therefore might not take you seriously at all.
Anyway, if you're turning into a real player after you have gone through all the tips on how to be a player, why would you want to risk your close friendship with your best female pals? The risk is that if they are falling in love with you and yet you are unwilling to commit, you will have lost not only a girlfriend but also a real close friend.
The road to becoming and being someone's boyfriend is fairly straightforward, and if you turn into one through your original casual friendship, your chances of going back to being "just friends" are not very likely. You may also never be able to get out of the "friend zone" and be stuck here forever because she can never see you as anymore more than "just a friend."
Your best bet at making it as a player is to be straightforward with your girl pals. Tell them that you are open to a relationship but you are not likely to commit in the near future. If she does not agree, then maybe she can still be your friend and even help you with the next method of learning how to be a player social proofing.
One way is to have your gal pal introduce you to other women as her "ex" so that the women you meet can be alerted to your value as boyfriend material. The fact that you have become the boyfriend of an attractive woman and that you have separated peacefully means you are one heck of a cool guy. This is a social proofing technique that is almost fool proof as I'm sure you can see why. Your value increases immediately, and so girls would want to date you.
How to be a player by being her boyfriend, and not just her friend?
Sure, a lot of sources will tell you that knowing how to be a player means flirting with anyone and sleeping with anyone, even your female pals. However, sleeping with a friend is like scratching an itch, while sleeping with a boyfriend means falling deeply in love with him through sex.
If you don't care about what women think, and feel relieved that having girl pals to sleep with when you yourself feel antsy is well and good, but what if your girl pal suddenly becomes involved with another guy? Where will you be then?
Can you see the problem there?
You can never have full certainty that your female friend will want you for a serious boyfriend, and the worst part is that if you're really close to her, she will see through you immediately and know that you are learning how to be a player and therefore might not take you seriously at all.
Anyway, if you're turning into a real player after you have gone through all the tips on how to be a player, why would you want to risk your close friendship with your best female pals? The risk is that if they are falling in love with you and yet you are unwilling to commit, you will have lost not only a girlfriend but also a real close friend.
The road to becoming and being someone's boyfriend is fairly straightforward, and if you turn into one through your original casual friendship, your chances of going back to being "just friends" are not very likely. You may also never be able to get out of the "friend zone" and be stuck here forever because she can never see you as anymore more than "just a friend."
Your best bet at making it as a player is to be straightforward with your girl pals. Tell them that you are open to a relationship but you are not likely to commit in the near future. If she does not agree, then maybe she can still be your friend and even help you with the next method of learning how to be a player social proofing.
One way is to have your gal pal introduce you to other women as her "ex" so that the women you meet can be alerted to your value as boyfriend material. The fact that you have become the boyfriend of an attractive woman and that you have separated peacefully means you are one heck of a cool guy. This is a social proofing technique that is almost fool proof as I'm sure you can see why. Your value increases immediately, and so girls would want to date you.
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Chaszey Sandhriel is a renowned expert in the field of love relationships; head over to her site to download your free 7-day online dating e-course. She's also the author of a one-of-a-kind love blog giving tips about how to find true love.
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