Wednesday, January 28, 2009

How To Romance Your Woman - Be A Lover Not A Fighter

By Marc Sandford

How to be romantic can be a very useful thing to know when it comes to keeping your partner happy and interested. A complaint that most women have about their significant others is that they're clueless about being romantic. Its about time that we give our partners what they truly desire.

Romance can not only help your marriage or relationship, it will make it thrive. Romance is also a playful activity that can be fun. Here are some tips:

1.) Compose a lengthy love poem and divide it up into parts. Publish the different parts of your poetry on different web pages and link from each page to the next. Don't forget to include a romantic picture or two on each page.

The Internet is full of web sites where you can set up a web page on their site that will not cost you a penny. They'll all have a very simple to use editor which allow for effortless web page creation.

As of the writing of this article, there are 74,500,000 search results in Google for the search term "create free web page". An easier variation is to place the entire poem on one page.

2.) When you get into a disagreement with your partner, never use the words "always" and "never". When we are in a state of anger we tend to use those words to really drive home our point even if it's not true.

Everyone does this but your partner is going to be hurt by this exaggeration. It's a rare person that "always" does something or "never" does some other thing.

3.) When you are engaged in an argument, apologize quickly for any hard or mean words on your part. Don't assume that it'll be quickly forgotten. Many of our longest memories are of events that are filled with emotion. Her memories of you should be pleasant, not poisoned by a lot of hurtful things.

4.) It's not unusual for men to go back to their old bachelor habits when the relationship progresses beyond its initial stage. A habit that annoys most women is not leaving the toilet seat down. Another is to behave like she were a guy. Always be mindful that she is a woman who should be treated as a lover.

5.) Put in some extra effort when wrapping your gifts for her. The more elaborate the better. This means fancy wrapping paper, ribbons and a card. Never give her an unwrapped gift.

6.) It's a natural reaction to say "nothing" or "nothing much" when someone asks us what we are thinking about. When your partner asks you this, she just wants to share your feelings. She would feel shut out if you said "nothing".

So tell her what you were thinking or if your mind really was in a blank state, then say that she was in your thoughts. Tell her how gorgeous she is.

If you are just starting out, you should know that no gesture is too small. Expressing romance in conventional ways definitely works and always will. However, don't be afraid to get creative. That's when the real fun starts.

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